I Just Can't Do It All............

[salmam1]

Ok, I know that this may come as a shock to some of you, but I am finding myself more and more stressed out. With Joey playing Club Soccer, Mike joining the Water Polo/Swim team (at school), the start of a new school year, my impending promotion, training for the Half Marathon (which I WILL DO), and Mike working shiftwork, I am just floundering! My computer time has lessened, greatly.

I want to be very clear with this comment:

I AM NOT GOING AWOL OR OFF PROGRAM!

I am NOT going to be around BCB as much in the near future, but I will not lose the BCB attitude. I just need to get a grip on the things that I can, in my life. I need some down time and sitting at the computer for long periods of time is NOT down time. I will NOT give up my gym time, so I have to make some concessions. I will be here off and on during the week, but just not everyday. I just didn't want anyone to think that I was upset or going off program. That ain't gonna happen! graemlins/bcbkick.gif

I love you all, but I am finding myself worn out and I have to start getting some rest when I can. I will probably be starting work earlier in a couple of weeks or months. I will check in from time to time and expect to keep in touch with those of you, whom I have come to be close to, as true friends. I love you all!

xoxoxoxox
Sal graemlins/bcbsalute.gif

[lindalou9]

Sal - I certainly understand. I don't know how you women with lives do it all! ;) I just have me and two very spoiled cats and I know I don't have enough hours in the day. Just as long as you're not going away permanently, and as long as you don't lose the bootcamp attitude (which I know you never will now!), your request for periodic leave is granted!

Love you sweetie!

Linda graemlins/bcbsalute.gif

[WhereForArt]

Sal, believe me, I understand. In fact, I've been thinking about posting the same type of letter myself. I just can't justify spending 20-30 minutes at the computer each day, when there's 50 million other things that need doing.

I know you'll be popping in, so stay calm, focus on your life (and your family -- after all, that's what's important), and stay healthy! Good luck!

[darkscore]

Sal, I think we can all empathize. I know my posting has been somewhat sporadic, as work has really stepped up a notch and a lot of weekends are spent running around with errands. And I don't have kids!

You have to prioritize, and it sounds like that's what you've done. Post whenever you can, we'll be happy to hear from you.

[chocolasaurus]

I would NEVER think that you are awol or going off program. graemlins/bcbsalute.gif Just sometimes we have to prioritize. I will also be busier when I start school again shortly, so I can empathize. The main thing to remember is to take care of yourself, sometimes you get lost in the shuffle and we certainly don't want to see you in sickbay!
Love ya!
Mary :cool:

[nancyny]

Sal, I know the feeling, I'm there too, and am also about to punt BCB in favor of my life. I think you have your priorities straight. It is very easy to spend way too much time here.

If I spent half as much time exercising as I do on BCB I would be in much better shape - I'm with you, it's important!

Check in when you can! graemlins/bcbsalute.gif

And congratulations on your promotion!

[Tinatulips]

Sal,
Sorry to see you go! I understand about juggeling your life and I think you have learned what you needed to learn here. You will be missed. You are an inspiration to me and have really helped me find my WW/BCB nich. You always know just where I am at and say what I was thinkking myself, but needed to hear out loud.
The comment Nancy made , hit home. I could be erxercising more if.....!
I hope to catch you when you check in.
(((SAL))))

Tina

[WhereForArt]

If I spent half as much time exercising as I do on BCB I would be in much better shape. Ain't it the truth, Nancy -- ain't it the truth... <sigh>

[frustrated]

Sal: graemlins/wave.gif

You have hit the nail right on the head when you say You Have To Get A Grip On Things. You are going to make youreself ill if you dont get a handle on things and then you wont be any good for anyone. So take care of youreself and PLEASE check in when you can.

Thanks for all the great advice and graemlins/bcbkick.gif when I have had them coming.

Chrysilis :D
(Janice)

[FirstCavWife]

SAL!
You will be missed, but "REAL" life is more important than "VIRTUAL" life!!
And as far as Nancy goes, I'd look like Arnold Schwartzenegger if I did that! :D
HUGS!!!
-Dawn

[GrahamCracker]

Sal!

I, OH SO, can relate. I am scrambling to get old jobs done and hustling to get new jobs done. Sometimes I'm not sure I'm coming or going. You just watch out for you and everything will fall into a nice place and maybe you'll even be able to squeeze in some BCB time. Just set your priorities and visit when you can. You know we'll always be here for you!

Love ya, GF!

[bizz]

Sal babe, I sure can relate, when life gets too hectic, I stay clear of the computer! The only reason I can post most weekdays is due to later starting time. But I know sometimes when I should be in bed, I'm trying to catch up on threads, and other times I give it a miss! And am totally clueless to what everyone is on about :confused:

I'll miss not 'seeing' your pretty face around as often, but, you sure have to put things in perspective and when you have such a full on life, hell 30mins on the pc is just not available.

I would never of found bcb when my kids were younger, baseball, games and practice used to be every single day, my boys played in 2 different comps, then we had to find time for footy, cricket and Laimas netball that she played 5 nights a week and Saturday arvos.

We can all relate, I'm just happy that I've met you and many others here.

Take care, love you graemlins/kiss.gif Tracey

[promise2grace]

Oh Sal, I understand completely! I've found myself sitting here reading and responding when I should be doing other things. I'm glad to hear that you're not ditching program though. You've been a huge source of inspiration to me when I've struggled, and that's been so important. Thanks for that. I look forward to hearing from you when you have time, and hope things settle down soon for you.

Hugs, hon. Take care! graemlins/kiss.gif

[slave2cats]

Sal sweetheart - DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!!! Post when you can - don't let BCB feel like another chore you have to wedge into your already tight schedule!

We know you're OP. We know you love us. And Lord knows, we know you're busy as a one-armed paper hanger graemlins/crazy.gif

Love ya babe. Check in when you can!

[salmam1]

graemlins/kiss.gif Thank you all for your loving support! You do not know how much I love each and everyone of you. It makes me so proud that through my rough times, I have been able to be an inspiration to some of you. That means more to me than you can imagine. I will not leave completely, but am glad to be able to relax about posting. Also, thank you for being so understanding.

xoxoxoxo
Sal graemlins/bcbsalute.gif