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Accept
Your Body and Learn to Have a Positive Self Image
Because
thin females and muscular males are seen as the ideal in our society
and because we have come to believe that body size and shape are
totally under a person's control, most people enter diet and exercise
programs with unrealistic goals and expectations. If you continually
strive to achieve a socially imposed ideal, you will never be free
of your insecurities or your self-consciousness. You must truly
realize and then learn to accept that we are not all meant to be
fashion-model size.
Our
body size and structure reflects not only our eating and exercise
habits but also our genetics. The role this latter factor plays
in determining weight seems to vary greatly between individuals.
We are all born with a certain body type inherited from our parents.
Although hardly anyone is a pure body type, there are three different
applicable categories: ectomorphs, mesomorphs, and endomorphs.
Characteristically,
ectomorphs have a light build with slight muscular development.
They are usually tall and thin with small frames and narrow hips
and shoulders.
Mesomorphs
have a husky, muscular build. They often have broad shoulders, and
their weight is concentrated in the upper body, making them look
compact or stocky.
Endomorphs
are characterized by a heavy, rounded build with shoulders usually
narrower than their hips. They have a round, soft appearance and
are more often overweight or obese.
When
we understand and appreciate our bodies, we are able to work with
them, not against them. Although many of us are a combination of
two body types, we cannot become what we are not. However, everyone
can improve their appearance and their health and performance levels
by implementing the principles of a safe and effective eating and
exercise program.
Even
if you have a genetic predisposition to being overweight, the way
you live is what ultimately determines whether you become fat. Genes
clearly play a role, but they certainly don't determine what you're
going to have for dinner or how often you exercise. Chances are
if you're living an unhealthy lifestyle, you'll become fat and unhealthy.
All
of us can't be thin. But every single one of us can be healthy.
By focusing on what you're eating and how much you're exercising,
you'll be able to achieve optimum health and fitness, even though
you may not achieve society's ideal of thinness. Accepting yourself
does not mean that you're hopeless and that it's okay to do nothing.
It means that you feel good and care about yourself, and that you
want to be the very best you can be, regardless of your genetics,
regardless of society's standards.
To
achieve this level of optimum wellness, you must have a positive
self image. This means that your feelings about your body are not
influenced by events in your daily life. For many people, life's
problems are projected onto their body. "If only I were thinner--or
more muscular, I would have made the team, gotten the job, been
chosen. . . . If only I were thinner--or more muscular, I could
meet more people, find the right guy/girl, be happy." This
self-defeating habit is reinforced by the images we see in advertising;
your body becomes an easy target for everything wrong in your life.
When
you have a positive self-image, you value and respect your body;
you are also more likely to feel good about living a healthy lifestyle.
No
matter how much genetics predetermines how you store and lose fat,
the body you've been given will still respond positively to being
appreciated and treated well. Focusing on fun physical activity
and eating healthy foods will help you feel good whatever your size.
Developing a healthy, positive image of yourself is the first critical
factor in your fitness success. Having a strong sense of self-worth
provides the basis for making rational and affirming decisions about
your health. Good luck, stay positive, and enjoy all the wonderful
benefits of a healthy, active lifestyle!
By
Chad Tackett, President of Global Health and Fitness
http://www.global-fitness.com
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